{"id":6401,"date":"2014-03-24T07:08:31","date_gmt":"2014-03-24T14:08:31","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/ladyslittleloves.com\/?p=6401"},"modified":"2018-12-09T00:27:17","modified_gmt":"2018-12-09T00:27:17","slug":"update-baby-dilemma","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/livingwithlady.com\/2014\/03\/update-baby-dilemma.html","title":{"rendered":"An update on our baby dilemma&#8230;"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Sooo, I feel a little bit bad about the title of this post. I know some of you were thinking I was going to announce a pregnancy after I first wrote about our dilemma <a href=\"http:\/\/livingwithlady.com\/2013\/12\/three-three.html\">here<\/a>, but no. I am not. No pregnancies over here.<\/p>\n<p>I also can&#8217;t say that we have come to the conclusion that our family is complete. Because we have not.<\/p>\n<p>In short, we are in the exact same place as we were the last time I wrote about this.<\/p>\n<p>I am writing this semi-update because I get asked all the time if we have decided what we are going to do. And each time I just say that we still don&#8217;t know. That I think about it almost every single day. That I have prayed and prayed about it. And we still don&#8217;t know.<\/p>\n<p>In fact, one day in church we were asked to turn to the person next to us and ask the other what we could pray for. The Hubby and I both asked the sweetest old man if he could pray for our dilemma of whether or not to grow our family. He took this prayer request very seriously and led us in a very thoughtful and sincere prayer.<\/p>\n<p>We have just not had that satisfying answer we are searching for.<\/p>\n<p>Sometimes, when the days are hard with the two we have I think I am absolutely done. No way could I handle any more.<\/p>\n<p>And sometimes, when the days are smooth and full of laughter and ease, I also think we are done because life is starting to get more predictable. And going forward would just be&#8230;..easier.<\/p>\n<p>And then I worry that another would &#8220;mess up&#8221; the rhythm we are in. The rhythm that finally has me sane and all of us functioning with minimal tears. The rhythm that consists of more good days than bad.<\/p>\n<p>But then I catch myself talking with friends about it and saying things like &#8220;with the next one I like the name&#8230;. &#8221; instead of &#8220;IF we have another one I like the name&#8230;&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>We are also looking at houses and I am insisting on a house with at least three bedrooms for kids&#8230; just in case.<\/p>\n<p>And that regret. Ohhhhh I so badly don&#8217;t want that regret.<\/p>\n<p>What is my subconscious saying here?<\/p>\n<p>People keep telling me, &#8220;Oh, you&#8217;re young. 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