{"id":12397,"date":"2016-05-26T02:30:12","date_gmt":"2016-05-26T09:30:12","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/ladyslittleloves.com\/?p=12397"},"modified":"2018-12-09T17:53:37","modified_gmt":"2018-12-09T17:53:37","slug":"how-we-got-our-babies-to-sleep-through-the-night","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/livingwithlady.com\/2016\/05\/how-we-got-our-babies-to-sleep-through-the-night.html","title":{"rendered":"How We Got Our Babies to Sleep Through the Night"},"content":{"rendered":"

I mentioned a few weeks ago that Baby Franklin is sleeping through the night and have since received several questions about how we did it. I found myself copying and pasting a lot of what I said to various people and thus decided to just write it all out.<\/p>\n

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I do want to first say that of course every baby is different and what worked for us may not for you. These are simply suggestions for you to try if you so desire, and we respect each parents’ decision to do as they deem best for their family.<\/p>\n

Okay!<\/p>\n

We sleep trained all three of our babies using a combination of Healthy Sleep Habits, Happy Child and Baby Wise.<\/a> We liked certain aspects from each of these books and adapted them to fit our needs.<\/p>\n

One of the biggest things we took away was to get our babies on an Eat, Wake, Sleep schedule so that they could learn to fall asleep on their own and didn’t rely on a prop or aid to get them to sleep, like eating or movement. Don’t get me wrong, we definitely cherished those sweet baby sleeping snuggles, but once a little older we tried limiting sleep to the baby’s bed so that the baby associated that space with sleeping.<\/p>\n

With Gwyn and Cal, we tried eliminating one waking period at a time. So, if they woke up at 11:00, 1:00, 3:00 and 5:00, we would start be eliminating the 1:00, then the 3:00, the 5:00 and then the 11:00. And we did this by letting them fuss.<\/p>\n

And it was painful to listen to. My mama heart was aching, but I truly believe as the above books claim, “You are giving your child the gift of sleep” which will benefit the children for the rest of their lives. And so far it is holding true for our kids. Gwyn and Cal are great sleepers.<\/p>\n

With Gwyn, I would go into the room and try to calm her down, soothe her, or try comforting her with my voice… But that only escalated the situation even more and I ended up nursing her, in which she fell right back asleep doing, signaling to me she really wasn’t hungry. Trickster! So, I stopped doing all of that, stat.<\/p>\n

With Gwyn, once we buckled down, it only took about three days and she was sleeping through the night. I couldn’t believe it! She was about 6 months old when we did this, and slept through ever since.<\/p>\n

Cal was four months old when we got the okay from our pediatrician saying he was fully capable of sleeping through the night, and it took a little longer, I want to say about 7-10 days.<\/p>\n

Franklin was also four months when we started sleep training him, but his situation was a little different in that at about 6-8 weeks, he would randomly sleep from 10-5 on a few occasions, which let me know that he was capable. So, with him I didn’t stick with the elimination of times, I tested him to see how far he could go. I kept track of what he did on the “notes” portion of my phone, so below are those notes:<\/p>\n

*All of our babies started solids and were doing well on them before we began sleep training.<\/p>\n

*Every night at 10:30, we wake him up for a bottle of breastmilk. We choose a bottle over nursing due to the fact that by the end of the night my supply is low, and with a bottle we know exactly how much he is getting, whereas nursing we wouldn’t be sure.<\/p>\n

Night 1-\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n

Up at 3- light cries on and off for a few mins<\/p>\n

Up at 4:14- louder cries for about 5-10 mins, off and on<\/p>\n

Up at 5:45- fed. Up at 7- fed<\/p>\n

Night 2-\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n

Up at 4:45- very faint cries off and on for a couple mins<\/p>\n

Up at 6:30- fed<\/p>\n

Night 3<\/strong><\/p>\n

Up at 4:45 for less than a minute<\/p>\n

Up at 5:45 for maybe 10 mins, off and on crying<\/p>\n

Up at 6:50 and fed.<\/p>\n

Night 4 <\/strong><\/p>\n

Up at 5:15- up for about 10 mins<\/p>\n

Up at 6:30 and fed<\/p>\n

Night 5 <\/strong><\/p>\n

Up for a few seconds at 2:45<\/p>\n

Up at 4 something \u00a0for a minute or two<\/p>\n

Up at 5 something a minute or two<\/p>\n

Up at 6, fed at 6:10<\/p>\n

Night 6<\/strong><\/p>\n

Up for a few at 2:30<\/p>\n

Up for a few at 4 something<\/p>\n

Up for a few at 5:30<\/p>\n

Up at 7:15 and fed<\/p>\n

Night 7-Fed solids at 6:15 pm<\/strong><\/p>\n

Up for a few seconds at 5<\/p>\n

Up at 7 and fed<\/p>\n

Night 8<\/strong>– time change- fed solids at 5:30pm<\/p>\n

Up for a second at 3:45<\/p>\n

Up at 6:50 and fed at 7.<\/p>\n

Night 9<\/strong>– Solids in evening and to bed at 7:30, woken up at 10:30 for bottle.<\/p>\n

Up at 6:00 and fed.<\/p>\n

Night 10-<\/strong>\u00a0Solids in evening and to bed at 7:15, woken up for bottle at 10:30<\/p>\n

Up at 6 and fed at 6:15 (trying to slowly push until 7am)<\/p>\n

Night 11<\/strong>– Solids in evening. Home late and very tired, decided to not wake him for the 10:30 feeding and see what happens.<\/p>\n

Up at 5:30- on and off fussing<\/p>\n

Fed at 6 and again at 7:30<\/p>\n

Night 12-<\/strong> Again, no waking at 10:30 pm<\/p>\n

Up at 5- on and off fussing<\/p>\n

Fed at 6:00 and again at 7:30<\/p>\n

Night 13<\/strong>– Fed at 10:30 pm<\/p>\n

Up at 7 and fed<\/p>\n

Night 14-<\/strong> Fed at 10:30 pm<\/p>\n

Up at 7:15 and fed.<\/p>\n

Same pattern as the last two night for the past two months. (WAHOO!)<\/p>\n

*Note- On the days that he was nursed in the morning closer to 6, I would put him back down until around 7-7:30, and then wake him up and nurse again. He wouldn’t nurse a whole lot at this time, but I wanted him to get used to this being his wake-up time.<\/p>\n

Update** This past weekend we decided to try dropping the 10:30 pm feeding to see what would happen.<\/p>\n

Night 1-<\/strong> A few faint cries at 4:50 and 6:00 and fed upon waking at \u00a07:15.<\/p>\n

Night 2<\/strong>– A few faint cries at 6:00 and fed upon waking at 7:15<\/p>\n

Night 3<\/strong>-Fed at 7:15- Decided to wake him up to keep him on schedule.<\/p>\n

Night 4-<\/strong> A Whimper at 6:15 and woken up and fed at 7:15<\/p>\n

Night 5<\/strong>– Whimper at 6:30 and woken up at 7:15 and fed.<\/p>\n

Night 6<\/strong>– Few noises at 6:15 and up at 7 and fed<\/p>\n

We have successfully dropped the night feeding and are officially sleeping through the entire night. HOORAY!!<\/p>\n

A few more tidbits…<\/p>\n