{"id":11428,"date":"2015-10-26T04:00:43","date_gmt":"2015-10-26T11:00:43","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/ladyslittleloves.com\/?p=11428"},"modified":"2018-12-09T00:27:11","modified_gmt":"2018-12-09T00:27:11","slug":"dear-middle-child","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/livingwithlady.com\/2015\/10\/dear-middle-child.html","title":{"rendered":"Dear Middle Child"},"content":{"rendered":"
You have always been my baby.<\/p>\n
The baby brother to your sister.<\/p>\n
The baby to our family.<\/p>\n
The last one I carried in my stomach, the last one I nursed, the last one I toted around for months.<\/p>\n
You are the one who snuggled me when your older sister refused.<\/p>\n
The one who I let get away with more than I should have.<\/p>\n
The one who I kept in soft footie jammies and a protective crib.<\/p>\n
You have always been my baby.<\/p>\n
We are about to welcome your new baby brother or sister.<\/p>\n
And you are going to be the big brother<\/p>\n
A new role for you lays ahead.<\/p>\n
For this, I worry.<\/p>\n
How will you handle being an older sibling?<\/p>\n
How will you handle being the middle child?<\/p>\n
How will you handle life completely changing?<\/p>\n
For this, I worry.<\/p>\n
It’s hard for me to imagine you in this role.<\/p>\n
I know you will be sweet to this baby. I know you will be kind. I know you will be protective and loving, too.<\/p>\n
You express your excitement to help, to feed, and to care. To hold and to cuddle.<\/p>\n
And I pray you take on your new role with courage, strength and pride.<\/p>\n
A promise we have for you though, our son, is one we will never break.<\/p>\n
We will make sure you are not forgotten.<\/p>\n
We will make sure your needs are met.<\/p>\n
We will make sure you still feel important, heard and loved.<\/p>\n
And even though you \u00a0may not be the smallest anymore, or the one who will need constant care…<\/p>\n
You will always be my baby.<\/p>\n
Always.<\/p>\n
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